kissak, that's similar to the words I heard when he was leaving me. He only added "I would be with you if I didn't fall in love with OW".

In his "good-bye" letter he said among other things and I quote: "We have been together for many, many years. I have so many amazing and beautiful memories; we have had amazing times together. We were good together; no we were great together"

and another quote "I'm sorry that I'm causing you pain; being in love with another woman. I didn't expect this to happen, I fell in love and there wasn't a way back. My heart was marked"

K, I'm so happy for you that your H is waking up and yes indeed he is the lucky one that you were still there for him after all that he's done. OMGosh 3 years, you are amazing.

I have so many questions for you. How do you deal with all that pain he's caused, are you being able to forgive and still love him as before? How has you love for him changed after all of that? Do you see the same person in him as before the Bomb or has he really changed?


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO