Without infidelity, I would never have known truly what a wonderful person I am capable of being.
Without the infidel ......
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Part of me still questions my decision however I am learning that is the "safe path, my comfort zone"...
Doing it my way and expecting a respectful partner in the process is the "unknown path"...
Yet as I continue to gain back my self-respect and my self-esteem, I don't think it is to much to ask for...
I give what I expect - I didn't expect to be crapped on and as I continue to scrap the crap off of me I realize I am a much better person because of it...
I have raised the bar because of certain people and the way they think it is ok to go around and treat people...
Using others for your personnal gain is sad...
I feel for all the newcomers I see coming in here...The valley is so low for a lot of them and I feel I am just now beginning to climb the mountain...
I wouldn't have traded this experience for anything.
The diamond is starting to shine my friend - Look out world!
(((((Hugs))))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Long time no write, And for that I appologise (to busy being smug). You have no idea how happy I am to see you have even more great friends here - wish I'd dropped in a few days ago to stop you (as Puppy managed to do - thanks Puppy!)
The BS seems to be getting deeper so keep your head up high. Going to spend some serious time catching up on your sitch (read sticking my nose in).
BTW your namesake is doing very well - getting bigger and bigger. No-one is going to take her on :-)
Serenity - haven't done this for so long and I'm sorry