Moving Foward

[Cie la vie]

K,

Vegas is nice this time of year weather wise 70's and 80's. I haven't been out their in a year of two.

My facebook page is really non-existent I haven't added a single friend to it yet and the only reason I am able to look at hers is through my mom's friends list which my W is one of. I just need to be disciplined in avoiding the temptation to look.

Your parenting schedule is pretty typical of a SAHM deal. What sort of things do you do to keep yourself busy to avoid thinking of your sitch?

Over the last few days I have come to the realization that I do NOT want my W back.

I know how you feel not sure I am there yet but for me it is likely a moot point. I don't see my W coming back and should she it will likely be at least a couple of years down the road. I'm quite sure I will be long gone at that point anyway.

I'm not interested in being my W friend post D but I do intend to be friendly primarily for the sake of the kids. She mentioned to me in one of our recent mediation sessions that she wants to able to sit with me at our daughters future dance recitials. Not sure I'm going to be interested in that either.

The Easter weekend could present a interesting dilemma for me as well. We have tradionally held an Easter party and egg hunt at our home. The W causaly floated that holiday and how we wanted to handle it a while back. It's her weekend with the kids so I'll let her make the ovature. My sense is she won't and I'm inclined to pass on any gatherings with her at this point.

I took a moment the other night to get reacquainted with your sitch and we share a a lot of the same issues. Lets keep eachother abreast of the developments and hopefully we can aide eachother through the garbage pile.

Have a good one.