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[ClingingToHope]

I am also reading many people's sitches and I think at times I am giving in too soon, but at the same time why should I keep my life on hold and live in limbo.

I don't think you're giving in too soon. Your H is someone who would keep you on a string forever if you let him. You are making him grow up and make a choice. To me, it wouldn't be a hard choice. I'd kill for another chance to watch my family grow up every day. Your H? Well, not so much.

I thought I could live in limbo forever and I've seen some people on here still in limbo. Everyone has to make their own choice. In my case, it was made for me.

Last point is financial. Times are going to be tough the next couple of years for teachers and you have a son to think about. You need financial support and it's his job to provide it.

I'm behind you.