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Twin - That was, EPIC! (JTB - If you're reading along, would you agree?!?!)


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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Serenity,
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I said and I quote - "You look like s**t" (Yes I spoke before I thought)...
Been a while since I've presented a Belly-Laugh Of The Day Award laugh laugh laugh , but it's all yours!
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Me - See ya...
Oh, yeah!!!!
You DBing Queen, you cool

(((((HUGS)))))


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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((((Gardener))))

Thank you my friend...

It wasn't ment for a laugh...

Just something that flew out of my mouth as usual before thinking... smile

Like I said - I still have some learning to do. wink


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
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Twin ~

I knew you would love it! grin


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grin Serenity, my friend, whether you meant to say it or not, it is priceless! grin

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(((Rocked)))

blush Serenity needs to learn to keep her trap shut wink

Then again that would give the control back to him and I have come to far to ever allow that to happen again!

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I'm not sure it was a bad thing at all.

It told him you were paying attention to him. It told him you cared, but not in a way that you were worried about what he would think.

I think you might have given him something to think about.

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(((Jeff))))

Not exactly what I was trying to portray...

He has always taken pride in his appearance so to see him looking like something the cat dragged in was a bit of a shock.

No longer my worries though now is it? wink


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No, not your worry!

At some level you do still care, though. And if you want the have a civil relationship, it doesn't hurt that he knows it. The part I like is that it was clearly not a needy sort of caring, it was more like a guy buddy might tell him.

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Jeff...

Of course I do...

I don't think you can be married for 20 years/end it all/and not care on some level...

Plus he is the father of my boys....

If only for that, I care...

I am never one to shut any door...

I only go where I am guided and now I feel his time with me is over...

Who is to say what may happen sometime down the road?

I know that I am not the person I was when I joined here...

He commented that I wasn't the same person I was a year ago...

I didn't like that person - That person was fearful of everything...

I am happy within my own skin once again...

I am happy with the choices I have made...

I am happy to have my control back...

I wish him well in whatever he does and I thank him for this opportunity...

Without infidelity, I would never have known truly what a wonderful person I am capable of being. smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~
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