Completely ignore the separation requests from her. Disregard them. Her requesting them is b/c she is hurt. She is hurt because she loves you and is frustrated and feels hopeless. Also, this often is a subconscious test. A test that you will not give up. Women love to be cherished and "won over".
My hubby told me we were over- umm, about a million times-hehe.
Look at their actions, not words. If she can get easily hurt by you (with you earlier mistake) then she does indeed love you.
Just the way a teenager will scream at their parents- "I hate you" you know it absolutely not to be true.
Same dynamic here.
It is said a lot on this board. Judge by their actions not words.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
