You nailed it. I would have said she is just really lazy. But what is the difference really?
Rob, you nailed the actual sitch just like Pearl nailed her pov. Except the W has said more than once,"no matter what I've done in the past, that I'll not be good enough to earn your love." She also said she feels "inferior" to me. It's not even like I ask that much. She barely even tries.
Her top responses to conflict: 1. "I don't know why I bother." 2. "I just can't deal with that right now." 3. "It doesn't matter what I do."
She doesn't have to try because she feels for some reason that you've "settled" for her, like you had to drop down to her level so she didn't feel like she had to work up to your level.
