Dude you know me..I do not want this and have instructed to L to stop the process. I am only trying to find out what the finacial are. That is all.
To answer the question...I suppose you mean giving up control.
FTR - I am going to switch places with her and have her move into the bedroom while I move to the sofa. I do not want my kids to see that mommy is on the sofa. They will not understand and will look at me as being the bad guy. I'd love you thoughts on this one.
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