My attny feels that she will more than likely fight for the kids since it financially benefit her to have them most of the time. I should have NOT paid down the debt and given most of the money to my attny.
She is gone. She is sick and she will cause a tremendous amount of damage before she is done. I know in my heart that in a few years she will come back to appologize by them though the damage has been done. I can say right now that pushing aside the anger...I begining to feel nothing for her. Nothing. The women I married died. She is dead.
She has manipulated my oldest against me, which I understand is a common MLC trait but needless to say she has totally screwed me. I know I will survive. I know I will be better because of this. Right now I may not see it but I know at some point in the future I will rise above this sh*t. When..who knows...only God.
MLC sucks - it is a home wreaker. A destructor of any love. It really sucks.
Assumptions, all of them, and only helping to cause you to spin in the wind. Kill the assumptions. Live in the now. Deal with what is happening NOW.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
