I just spoke to my attny and she will have a case for alimony. Since W has spoken to an attny I suspect that they have confirmed the same to her. I am only getting the financials from my attny so that I can plan a budget and figure out the next steps for me.
I have instructed my attny not to file. My attny feels that we have a very good case for 50/50 with my D and my middle son but the oldest just may trump it. As suspected Mommy spoke to her little baby and is doing real good at brain washing him.
We her and I spoke with the kids as I was telling the kids that we have decided to LS, my son said oh..then you are getting a D. I said no that we are getting a LS. My son asked what the difference was and my wife LAUGHED with him and said she did not know what the difference was. I explained to my son the difference. My wife told my kids that sometime people fall out of love and that they GROW. I explained to my son that we unconditionally love both of them and that true love does not die. W decided against telling my D. Oh...I also said to my son that sometimes people try and relive periods in thier lifes that they missed and that is part of growing. His response was oh..a mid life crisis. I thought it was an interesting statement. So I assume that my W has told my son that she is going thru a mid life crisis and that she just needs to do things on her own.
She knows she is in a crisis and really think that she is just growing and changing and that part of that change is getting rid of me.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
