No significant input from the in-laws,, FIL believes the W when she tells them there is no OM, as expected.. no further contact from them since they left last month, Majority of friends, family believe her as well....
W has increased psychological distance, between her and I.
Court: temp order for joint legal custody, I see a combination of the 3 kids: -3 weekends a month (F-Sun) -youngest stays over one other night a week -all 3 one other night from school til bedtime. -we can adjust if both parties are in agreement.
I basically have a combo of my kids half the time BUT, child support is not reflected that way, (we are 55% to 45% in salary comparison)
My side requested to have a guardian -ad -litem for the kids,, that was approved so we will have an unbiased 3rd party looking out for the kids..
No reconcilation possibilities. Period. I think I conceeded this fact in January after realizing I dont believe I could ever forgive/forget all that the W has perpetrated..
On a good note, my health is good, mind set is stable, I have met some one who is very supportive and we have a healthy exchange between us both....
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09
