I will try to get some help from family to approach him on this. However, I think I'm ok doing it alone if I have too. I'm still working on myself, but I'm a lot stronger than I was a few weeks ago. If he doesn't agree to it, then it's his loss and does mean he is being very selfish. If that is the case, then I will work on getting my own place to start rebuilding my life for me and my kids.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10