I actually told him when I discovered about the OW. "If you'd put as much effort into our relationship as you did into the affair all the things you said that you were unhappy about would have been solved".
Almost verbatim to what I said to my H!
Amazing how they'll go to the ends of the earth for someone that, compared to us, they only met yesterday...
Last edited by DiamondGirl; 03/25/1003:22 PM. Reason: not enough coffee
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