And, I'm sorry to say this, but you have asked a few ways: Why the change in demeanor from MENDIGBODY'SLIKE MINE to COFFEEANDADONUT??? She got laid over the weekend! The edge is off! And, now... probably some guilt! You, yourself, said that she was at a hotel in a town close to the OM. I'm bad at math, but I can add! Fergie, I'm sorry, but that's my POV. Hopefully, I'm TOTALLY WRONG!
You're not wrong, you're totally right. Let her feel this guilt but the trick is not to let her off the hook, but act perfectly fine as in life is awesome for you, it couldn't be better. That you're no longer waiting around for her, if she wants the single life, you're going to enjoy it too.
