I asked ST to pop in and have a look, she provides good, faith based advice. Let's not run her off.
I've also had the pleasure of communicating with DU in the alt. We had a long talk a while ago.
ST, FYI, Destiny is a victim of major gaslighting. To the extent that her perception of self-worth was completely destroyed. Right now her going dark and ignoring her H is essential for her to regain clarity. She needs the lies to dissipate so that she can see for herself what we see in her. i.e. That she is worth it. That she is stronger than she thinks. That there are people who truly care for her well-being. The last time we touched base I saw that DU's own "fog" is lifting. Her shattered faith in God is busy being restored.
The priority above everything else is DU. DU discovering herself. DU freeing herself from the lies she has been led to believe. DU rebuilding her strength and rediscovering her faith.
The rest of the stuff? NOT IMPORTANT for now. It can wait.
You're doing well DU and you know how to get a hold of me if you need to.