Well to be honest it seems like this is how our marriage has gone on yes. He told me just two days ago that he feels like he couldn't get out if he wanted too though because he thinks that I wouldn't let him go...I told him no you can go if you want I am not stopping you at all. He does like conflict and problems I honestly believe that is true, it is almost like he likes playing games like this but would never actually go through with getting a divorce and I say that based on all the years we have been together and what we have been through.