Well, H told me this morning he wants his own phone account. He said doesn't want to talk on the phone worrying I could snoop on where he's making his calls to.
It ended up in a big fight. D got brought up, lawyers got brought up, he called me abusive and controlling (projection, anyone?). I called him a hypocrite because I've caught him monitoring my computer use many times, and he uses my phone and listens to my voice mail whenever he feels like.
I wish I would have just agreed to whatever he wanted and not talked to him further. I made a big mistake here. I realize now he was baiting me into another fight. He seems especially upset about all the changes I'm making, upset that I'm visiting a C this morning, upset that I've been making contact with friends I haven't talked to in a while. He doesn't like me having a life. Then he wants to call me controlling at the same time. I am really getting tired of his warped sense of reality. It's been a frustrating morning, to say the least.
