and then he suddenly says that how I am acting really bothers him but yet he when I ask him what he wants to do he says he is done?
Listen to what he is saying.
REALLY??? How I am acting is bothering you? Can you help me understand that better?
Confused and emotional people don't think thru their decisions. So don't ask what he wants to do - he doesn't know. You are modeling strong healthy behavior, let him come to you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
How I am acting is bothering you? Can you help me understand that better? 