Just keep in mind that it is in any lawyer's best interests to have you file for divorce. They make more money that way.
On a deeper level, don't allow your lawyer to somehow become the one who makes such a decision. I'm not saying that's what you're doing just yet, but there is a fine line between gathering information and setting someone up to tell you to end it.
And since we give our own personal advice freely here, I continue to say that if she is actively involved in an affair, you need to cut all financial ties and she needs to get out on her own.
You have already experienced a taste of the hell it can be living with a spouse who is acting married to another persons.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
