You know that is one of the things I've been struggling with. You see the old spouse but they still want no part of you so you start to think "Are they just done?". I think that's why it's important to be detached all the time. When I see my old wife, I get sucked back in so easily and then when the MLC behaviors start again, I get crushed. I have to remind myself it's all part of the journey.
