katie that's what my H says to me...that i am such a good person and i deserve to be with someone so much better than he is. don't respond by telling him what a great person he is, that's exactly what he's looking for. let him simmer in those feelings for a while. what you're doing is obviously working because he's interested in how happy you seem and how well you're doing. has he asked you to legalize anything or see a L or anything yet?
maybe you could suggest a few counseling sessions before you decide on filing anything? is he seeing an IC? are you?
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
