Sorry I meant to ask how I am suppose to take his reactions? he says he didn't care for a long time and then I changed myself and I moved on in a way and have been taking care of myself and not worrying about what he is thinking etc...and then he suddenly says that how I am acting really bothers him but yet he when I ask him what he wants to do he says he is done? I dont understand and honestly just want to know if any of you have been through this before.