I have been thinking about the social events and weight thing. I don’t think I can add to the weight thing. That is her issue alone. I don’t make a big deal out of it. I do get frustrated and upset when she wants to throw money at the problem. I’ve told her I don’t care and it certainly hasn’t stopped me from having sex with her. So… meh.
As far as the social events go, I don’t want to get to chicken-and-egging, but I used to have a lot of social events for a charitable fraternity. And early on, before she really got going in her career, she would come along to a few at first. But then she stopped. I realized they were pretty boring, and I let her out of going. Now she never comes along to any of them.
At her events it isn’t that she thinks I’m embarrassed to be seen with her, it is more like she is embarrassed to be asked where I am. It doesn’t look good for her image to not have the H accessory present. But it has certainly never stopped her from going.
