so now W and i are actively talking about our R particularly the past...things that lead us to drifft apart. She tells me the A was not result of where we were, but was her choice...and it is a choice she regrets making every day, she was not sure what she wanted nor why she did it.
right now i am willing to give a second chance (not to be confused wtih forgivness at this point). she did tell me something that i am not sure how to handle....she says she sees me as a controling "father" figure and does not want to have sex...she does back it up with she really does not want to feel that way about me but she feels all the crap that lead us to this point over the years has her seeing me in a bad light.
like i said i am a "physical" LL so this does not bode well with me. I continue to work on myself and admit my faults of the past.
any other suggestions on how to become attractive to my W sexually again?
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
