Given this much thought this morning, everything that has happened, the good, the bad, the horrible, and the whole 9 yards, and yet I feel and shared with (x)W, I love her dearly and thank my luck stars for her in my life any would not trade and of it for anything.
Even though as we say here, we are never done 'piecing', the vitals are in place for a strong nurturing relationship, and although this is not a divorce busted (since it happened), it is a love re-kindled and therefor reconcilled.
I also decided this looking through at situations here in piecing where there are still questions flying around about the stability of their R's and what not, so I don't feel I fit.
All my hopes for you all, and hope to see you in the rather desolate area of reconcilled where I'll be hanging out.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
This is great! You've come a long way. Remember, don't backslide....Be aware of both of your underlying issues which led to the 'd' in the first place. You seem to be right on track!
Peace
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08