Being bothered by X's actions toward you is normal. Obsessing on it isn't. You don't seem to get too hung up on it so I don't see a problem with just some casual dates, having fun with someone. A full-blown R probably isn't a good idea right now, but hanging out with someone of the male persuasion couldn't really hurt anything, right?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!