Thats just it. I don't think she is dating and I'm pretty sure she's not seeing OM. I have access to her cell phone account with out her knowledge and there are no strange numbers and no OM numbers. I think for her at this point it's more about principal. In her mind we are separated and she can date if she wants. Kind of gives her that "sense" of freedom, but I don't have evidence that there is anything she is persuing.
The big thing though is that she still works with OM. Although they have no need for contact, there are so many triggers everywhere. Actually thats what her diary said. She claimed there were triggers everywhere in her diary. I don't think she will be able to fully get through withdrawal until they no longer work together. That's when the real fog will start lifting.
She has started looking for a job elsewhere and he has given his resignation. 3 months to go until end of school year.
I'm moving back in that house this summer no matter what.
