I haven't posted here for awhile but I have a question. So I started the process of doing things for me and worrying about my feelings and emotions and not my husbands. It feels great! So after a couple of weeks like this I can tell he is upset. He writes me an email saying that he can't stand how I am so happy all the time with all of these problems in our marriage how can I be like that all the time, yet when he talks to me he acts like he wants to make it work, note that I dont bring that up at all I dont talk about the future I just say that I dont want to live like this and am ready to move on. So my question is he acts like he still cares because if he didnt he wouldn't write me an email like that or try to discuss things about our marriage if he didnt care.