My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

My H always said that he wanted me to tell him to come home. I would, and he then wouldn't come home or he would say that I am too controlling which is supposedly why he left in the first place. I don't know if your H is like mine, but I wouldn't play the game. You should tell him that you want him to come home and you want a good relationship with him, but he chose to leave and he needs to choose to come home.