Moving on with my life #2

[Startingover2]

I know you guys. Now that baby's bday is officially over we won't have the need to see eachother as much.

Yesterday was an interesting day. Wonderful day with her party and her special day, but very interesting.

As my FB friends can see I put my status of it being baby's bday yesterday. One of the comments was from exh's exw1 who used to be a good friend of mine when exh and I were together. I haven't really seen her since we split. Maybe once or twice.I was shocked to see her comment on my status.

Then a bit later my phone rings and its HER! I just let it go to VM and she left a nice message telling me how she wanted to wish baby a happy birthday and what a good mom I am and how she commended me for doing it alone and doing such a good job. She said I was always in her thoughts even though we don't talk much. Wow! Where did that come from? I did mention it to exh that exw1 called and left me a nice vm!

So then the party was great for baby. Exh bbq for all the kids and he and I. I will post pics on FB in a bit. I realized I need to get myself looking better. I am not usually in pics but I need to shed a few pounds! Anyway, it was good. Baby loved it. My family and his family came for cake and presents and all was good.

His brother who was a former addict and has been sober for over a year came last night and kept telling me that he is working on exh that he better do something or he will die. I didn't know what to say. Finally I said "I am his exw, he divorced us. All I can really care about is how it affects baby." His brother said that exh is a miserable person and he medicates and does bad things because he is miserable. Funny, the brother even told my mom the same stuff about exh. I am sure exh was dying the whole time.

It was also exh's birthday too and it was handeled well. A few birthday wishes, but the main focus was on baby.

Ok, baby's bday is over. Going to pull in the reins a bit. Not sure how, without being a rude person. I do like getting along with him, but I know my feelings are creeping. Not good.