When H calls to talk and we are just talking normally..should I stay on the phone and talk..or should I cut the conversation off after a little while..and avoid giving him too much? While talking to him I was very engaged..we were joking around etc.. I think he is trying to connect with me. Does it seem like I am not trying to connect if I get off the phone with him? I just don't want him to end the conversation. I want him to pursue me...and really want him to work here.
Then I would just recommend you mix it up a little. OCCASIONALLY talk longer, but MOSTLY do the "I was just heading out the door, can we chat later?" thing. Make him work at it, but throw him a bone every now and again to keep him interested and engaged.
