One day it just happens
The lbs eems ready to move on
maybe the time frame is different for each of us
maybe outside circumstances affect this
those they fall into a new R may move on quicker than those who dont
I agree the choice is up to the person

I am grateful though that I have moved forward here
I do not want my xh back any longer
I never thought( 3 years ago) I would get to this point
I also think it brings hope to the LBS that we do get better
we eventually all seem to let go
many of us start new and probably better R
many of us seem to find peace and happiness
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow