One day it just happens The lbs eems ready to move on maybe the time frame is different for each of us maybe outside circumstances affect this those they fall into a new R may move on quicker than those who dont I agree the choice is up to the person
I am grateful though that I have moved forward here I do not want my xh back any longer I never thought( 3 years ago) I would get to this point I also think it brings hope to the LBS that we do get better we eventually all seem to let go many of us start new and probably better R many of us seem to find peace and happiness peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow