OTM on the the greatest gifts god gave us was as follows.

Heart , Mind , Body , Spirit and Soul.

If it does not come from the heart. Use one of gods gifts.

I will give you a quote from a beautiful book written by a very smart and inspiring man the Prophet Muhammad(peace upon him)

Bread feeds the body, indeed, but flowers feed also the soul.

Use these words to comfort you when you have doubt or fear in your heart.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!