I'm guessing from your post that you don't think he's coming back. When you say "If he wakes up... you can reconsider getting back... but unless..." and so on. Or am I just reading too much into this?
Second Chance,
While I do not even pretend to be able to speak for Snodderly…
She says the IF and maybe for the same reason the rest of us do…
This is a crap shoot. There are NO guarantees. It isn’t because she thinks one way or another, it is simply the reality of the situation. Some of them wake up and come back, some of the wake up and don’t come back, and some of them…well they get stuck…
There is no way of knowing at the beginning…
That being said, you do seem to have heard some very familiar words…
My H wanted to date as well during his first go round with MLC. Not date other women, but date me… I thought he was nuts. It made NO sense…
We too had intimacy, even after the bomb…
But physical intimacy and real intimacy are two very different things…
Read, learn, and keep posting and asking questions.
Patience and understanding are two of the tools that you will need on this journey.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
