JaCT, Im sorry to see you here but glad you came seeking help. Many pros here with great advice. But you may want to put this into your own stitch as it helps keep track of what is going on with your life. My thoughts differ from many here as far as affairs go, I say dump the bum, hire a lawyer and take him for every penny you can. And I would say this to either man or woman. Once the sex act comes into the picture then it is over in my book. But that is just me. Have your read DR/DB yet? If not you need to. I would also recomend seeing your doctor and a therapist if possible. At least your doctor cause they can give you some really nice meds that help you remain calm and keep your thoughts collected. They wont write a prescription for a couple of joints and some twinkies, I tried that. I hope you find what you are looking for here. -Mike
M:40 W:40 D: 21 S: 18 D: 17 Md: 18 years -1/19/2010 W wants out -6/03/10 "Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.."
