Many Thanks. He is paying for one daughter but has not given anything to older daughter who is studying at uni. I did make the mistake earlier of trying to mediate but realise it was a mistake.
It only hurt our youngest more. I was the one making ctc at that point not him. He did put money in their xmas/bday cards but the girls sent that back too.
I agree it is their choice. The advice on getting on with life is good but not finding it easy.Starting some counselling today.
Thanks Cautious
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith