Many Thanks. He is paying for one daughter but has not given anything to older daughter who is studying at uni. I did make the mistake earlier of trying to mediate but realise it was a mistake.

It only hurt our youngest more. I was the one making ctc at that point not him. He did put money in their xmas/bday cards but the girls sent that back too.

I agree it is their choice. The advice on getting on with life is good but not finding it easy.Starting some counselling today.

Thanks Cautious


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith