Sorry about my rambling post earlier - maybe it is hard to tell what I"m saying. What I"m saying is today I got an apology and H owning his own bad behavior.

I deserve so much more. BUt I must acknowledge it's progress.

So, two nights ago and today, my progress: not reacting, standing up for myself, confronting H,
and the result:
de-escalation and apologies.

And thanks for the ovation everyone laugh

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship