THanks all - and FM yes, I am doing 180s. Disengaging from the fights, de-escalating, and calming H down.
Still confused about the pill thing. Very scary. Was going to meet with L tomorrow but can't because S is home sick.
Someone asked me early on if H is a narcissist - my dad thinks so. I'm getting a whole new view of H and thinking this "it takes one to tango" thing is not the best stance for me anymore. Can't tango with someone high on drugs and blaming me...
