donna, wasn't sure what I said to make you apprehensive, was it about the pool getting fixed? or about his being a good dad all the sudden? just wanted to clarify.
SO2, I would definitely agree that you need to be more careful. don't just keep answering everything now, you can't be wishy washy either, although I think because of his actions, you can reciprocate more and not shut him off completely.
hopefully this is a new turn for him, but who knows when the next lady walks in his life...then that will be the real proof.
be nice, but keep your distance too. I think that was good to be talking to your friends while he was there. try to do more of that so your not always around him.
and for him fixing things. good for him. he should be doing that, and you don't owe him anything, unless your paying for parts.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
