so why are you going dark?? it's only been 3 months since he left right? was there a bomb before that? it sounds like not really, but that you had suspicions of problems occuring last year due to his attitude. or when was the event where you came home early and OW dropped him off? was that before december?
I read up on the long list of events on page one, but don't have time to go thru 30 pages.
have you read For Women Only, do you know the 5LLs? how long have you been dark and how dark, no contact or responses?? how long did you DB? if you did, 3 months is not long enough.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
