What she's talking about her mom is when the last time we were separated her mom was pretty nasty to me. Her and I had never had ANY issues before, I was surprised how all of a sudden she became so nasty.
this is totally expected. usually the first person a W goes to is her mom...or so I've experienced with myself and friends. So she was venting to her a lot, and only seeing her side, so automatically the mom is trying to protect her cub. unfortunately she doesn't get to hear your side.
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I'm not as rigid as you want to believe. I had even suggested a combination trip so we could've visited my sister too.
Camping wise I didn't think I had DD this Fir/Sat so I already made some plans for myself. I'll take her some place fun on Sun though.
I really can't leave any earlier, I already get in later now and there's just a lot of new responsibilities. At the same time I realize her days are even longer than mine but she likes her school and friends.
okay, what I read here is defensiveness, mostly in the first sentence. and your mention of not being able to date, and being ugly, this is showing me a lack of confidence, and lack of worth. I feel you took her email too personally and as an attack or something. I'm not sure what, or if she will write back to this one.
your middle sentence was good though. I think the last one, instead of giving excuses, just say, that would be great, but unfortunately I can't leave earlier, is there something else we can work out?
as for the gifts, you had mentioned all the things you bought her, so I assumed you must of had that figured out, or hoped you had. what about the words of affirmation, her next one which was almost the same.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
