I wrote my last post while we were in the middle of a fight. She told me to shut-up, so I did. She's going away to think, but I think it is to party.
Our fight was about my SS who I stopped cleaning up after. She pushed a few of my buttons and said I don't listen - I fear something I'll never let down. I'm good at validating and have been for many years. All it took was one slip-up and suddenly all the progress in our R is pushed back five years.
If you're wondering why I slipped, simple. She was angry and didn't want to talk. I took what she said personally and wanted to know.