You say that he is not trying to "close the door". Take it at face value. He is a very confused guy, he doesn't know what he wants. He needs time alone to figure it all out. Maybe he will recommit maybe he won't. You need to accept that and be OK with it. That's the part of YOU that you need to work on. It's hard I'm strugling with it myself. Continue DB'ing and 180. That's your only ammunition right now. And protect yourself financially before he spends more money.
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I liked us. I liked my life. I don't want to date other men, search for someone new, work myself crazy and raise the kids on my own. I hate that they don't have the experience of growing up in the loving family that they had. Why would anyone do this?!!
My words exactly.
Thanks for reading my tread, yes there are so many similarities with these MLC guys, their actions and reactions. They all act as if "possessed by aliens". How else could a wonderful loving dad and H turn into this unfeeling selfish creature that destroys everything in it's path.
I hope that you are right and that the distance between my WH & OW will make the "love" fizzle out.
I'm sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts. Keep your chin up, you will be OK.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
