Hey 12bar, great to see you posting again. That must be frustrating; all those mixed messages. Makes me think of all the mixed signals I've sent to my H since I began MC; same kinds of things your W is doing. One moment I'd be telling him that if there weren't changes soon I'd be out the door; the next moment I'd be making summer holiday plans with him... I guess for me it was just... hope. Hang in there. That must be very confusing and hurtful to be on the receiving end. You're going to keep going to MC, right, even if she doesn't?
It's great news that you're finding your interest returning for work and gave a great presentation. I would think that re-engaging in work would help you detach a lot... anything that strengthens your confidence. And finishing your graduate degree, wow - more power to you!
I'm glad spring is here too; smiled when I read that! I was thinking that very thing while I was walking the pups tonight. Keep posting; keep detaching - it sounds like things are going well for your right now - yay! Take care, will watch for your next post. -PG
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.