His MLC and I don't know what to do anymore

[courageous wife]

I am just getting started really...my H filed for D. He said I pushed him into it when I told him that I would not live in an open marraige! He has only had our children overnight at his house twice since January. He has been working tons of OT and does work the mid-8am shift so it is hard for him to see the kids. I really want to have a set schedule so that I can plan things! I am still trying to decide whether to invite him over for Easter dinner. The kids and I have been invited to DIL's parents house and that sounds like a lot of fun!

Give yourself some time...it is still new! I am glad that your H is spending time with the kids! Family time is great for support! Take it when you can get it! Keep reading...lots of good posters on here! Go to the archives...read the success stories!