Hi CW,

Thanks, I'm re-reading them again now.

It's helping, sort of, at least it sounds a bit more rational then everything going on around me! smile

It's good to hear from other people who have gone through some of this, because no one around me has, and they don't understand, and even make it worse sometimes.

My family, for example, every event they plan they just do so, and lots of times I don't even have my children on those dates or times -- they are with H. And they don't seem to care, they just don't get it. So when we should be getting out around family and support, my parents and sibs are all doing things without us, my kids are excluded, and I am alone. Yuck.