My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I do think my lesson at this time is to be patient. Lola I think maybe we might be related, we sound very much alike.... I am being very patient through my husbands changes in moods.

Gucci I do want my h to come home more than anything. Assuming he isn't involved in the EA. I cannot know for sure if he isn't because he won't totally admit it. I have thought about telling him that I think he should come home right now and I am tired of this bs.

I feel like I am walking a fine line between controlling him and letting him be independent. He has complained that I have to much control of his life. Which is probably true but he has always thanked me in the past and seemed so happy that I did things for him. He was always appreciative of what I did for him.

Maybe I will tell him to just come home and see what he says...what harm could it do? He might leave again? Not like it hasn't happened before.... Ahhh, I don't know what to do. I might just ask him to stop by later and see how it goes from there. His moods do change frequently you know.