Attempt at piecing????

[ForPeanut]

Unfortunately, I think you are all right...Thanks for taking on my case...

Just be assured...Yes, I was very excited at the thought of maybe trying to build something again but I have also kept the walls up around myself enough to not be hurt yet. (seriously anyway)

However, that being said, I am curious what to do next...If he was willing to come to me as a possible rebound, is there any chance that we could work it out? I texted him last night and he was pretty vague so I dropped the convo pretty quick. He is definitely having some kind of second thoughts or crisis.

As for a timeline, I will try to fill you in as best as I can. I have some pieces of the picture as far as their breakup goes. In January, he texted me to let me know that he would need to switch weekends with our D3 so that he could move. I asked if he was ok and he just said that he was moving in with his parents. A week later he told me that he moved there because OW didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I heard from her on facebook and she wanted to tell my daughter hello...very strange since we NEVER talk. I asked XH if it was ok if I responded to her (wasn't sure what the circumstances were) and he said that would be fine (I didn't actually tell D3 anything of course) and that he and OW are no longer talking and that it was ok if I told D3 that she wouldn't be seeing OW anymore. As far as D3 has told me, OW has not been around D3 at all since then. XH and I have been texting and talking more now that he is not on a cell plan with OW. He visited our house once (very briefly but hasn't been to our house in 3 years until now) and we have been spending some time together at drop off and pick up (about 45 mins) playing with D3 together. In talking with XH, he said that OW has been persuing him via phone etc. but that it was finally over last Wed. I realize that he is definitely rebounding but like I said, how do I get it from rebound to possible rebuild????

I do not want to mess this up!