Thanks, peacetoday!
I think I'm out of rants, I didn't mean to rant at the people who responded, I'm just so angry and frustrated and sad about all this! My H has gone through an unbelievable amount of cash getting a luxury place to live, then decorating it in designer furniture, for his new life I guess. We have the old ratty couches and mismatched pieces of furniture. The only thing he took after the house sold was our kitchen table and chairs, then he sold it to the movers for $10!! He says it wouldn't match where we live now anyways.