Why do you think that he thinks that he's reconciling? Are you sure? Or is he just playing games to promote whatever best benefits him? He "seems" so sincere when he's standing in front of me. But then he goes away, and I can feel in my heart that he's not there.
I'm guessing from your post that you don't think he's coming back. When you say "If he wakes up... you can reconsider getting back... but unless..." and so on. Or am I just reading too much into this?
